Call me old fashioned if you wish, but allow me to share how I feel about interacting with people online. I wonder whatdid people lèarn in school or life in general. Surely, they must have been to scool, because people do have a great vocabulary when ranting about all that has gone wrong in their … More Why are people so rude online ?
Trust is the building block of any relationship, be it with your parents, siblings, your friends, people you meet in your professional life and most importantly with the person you intend to spend your entire life. Humans are capable to build life long bonds with other humans, despite the occasional differences. However, it’s not the … More People who have trust issues
So often we find ourselves that our ego comes in our way, when we want to let someone know how we feel about them, but those words remain unexpressed while people you know are waiting for you to say for a long time. It’s never too late. Words are powerful. They can heal someone who … More Ten phrases to tell someone before it’s too late
Majority of us must consider ourselves lucky if we can self-express about how we feel about things, people around us and our daily interactions and the environment around us. Some of us, for reasons I have shared below, find it difficult to express how they feel exactly at the moment they should be doing so, … More People who can’t express themselves
Did I offer peace today ? Did I bring a smile to someone’s face ? Did I say words of healing ? Did I let go of my anger and resentment ? Did I love ? These are the real questions. I must trust that the little bit of love that I sow now will … More Words of Wisdom
20th May 2001 – Arranged marriage 🙂 And a handsome gift – Aadarsh who turned 10 this year. This image was clicked in Paris in 2001 – hence, poor quality.
Inter-personal communication is one area where most people lack the basic skills to have a sound and healthy relationships with people. People may claim to be educated with a degree where they learnt maths and science. A degree does not make anyone an expert in inter-personal communication. One cannot build good personal relationships unless they … More Why nagging is injurious to health ?
Gaslighting is a form of psychological abuse where the target is made to doubt their sanity and dignity In romantic relationships, the abusive partner challenges the target’s thoughts ‘You are imagining things.’ ‘I told you, you need a mental check up’. This drives the target insane for a long period of time. The target feels worthless, … More Power of Gaslighting
People put so much time in building their career, trying to build wealth, that they forget that the most important people in their life with whom they should be spending their time is their own family. You can collect degrees, celebrate your promotion, travel the world, but there is nothing like spending quality time with … More Family comes first
One of the hardest acts for humans is to tender an unconditional apology to a person whom we hurt intentionally or unintentionally. The irony of life is that when people are younger, they would say ‘I’m sorry’ very easily, when parents tell them to do so, even if the purpose of apologizing is not understood. During … More The Power of Apology