I was wondering is it because of technology that people don’t smile often as they should these days.
In the mad rush to get to (God knows where), you find men and women find it really awkward to smile.
If you are one of those who has a natural smile on your face, people look at you with suspicion. They might even ask you ‘Are you okay ?’
Before I can share with you why smiling is good for your health, please can I have a smile from you, like the way this man does.
Thank you for the smile!
I met the artist in the above photograph at Kala Ghoda Festival in Mumbai few years ago. More about that festival when I write about Mumbai.
Benefits of smiling and laughing you didn’t know:
You look attractive: If you have a low self-esteem and you think people never complimented you for your looks, then one of the reason must be that you do not smile enough. Whatever is the situation in your life – just smile. Because by not smiling, the problem is not going to go away. There is a likelihood when you smile, people may approach you and might even solve your problem.
You look and feel younger: Not that your age should matter to anyone. Smiling does make you feel younger. When you feel younger, you are more enthusiastic to work on your life goals.
You confuse your critics: When people criticize you – just smile. It confuses them. When your critics know that their criticism will not affect you, they stop criticizing you.
You won’t feel lonely: I know many like to have their alone time. I am one of them. However, they also secretly feel that someone approached them and listen to them. If you do not smile, nobody will approach you.
People forgive you easily: When you think you’ve made a mistake, then just an apologetic smile does the trick. Because ‘sorry’ is the hardest word to speak, a smile in such awkward moment helps ease the pressure.
Smile and share the smile.
Very positive and it costs nothing.
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Very inspiring! Thank You 🙂
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Smile 🙂
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I don’t have that natural smile upon my face. But i try to keep it consciously. As you told, indeed it has got a magical effect. Liked your post.
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Having written that, I never smile.
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hmm..?
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You have a great smile here on your DP. Keep smiling.
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thank you..:)
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Yes, it is the most effortless action 🙂
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But people have made it hard.
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I couldnt agree more
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I smile all the time when I am in public. I smile at people. I smile when I talk. I smile when I click selfies. But I look like a witch in private. Great post on smiling and a wonderful photo as usual.
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It is your own demon inside that makes you think like that. Your smile in this DP is excellent. Keep smiling.
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Reblogged this on Suvarna Ventures.
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A smile is free and yet gives so much. A lovely post with a wonderful smiling photo 🙂
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Keep smiling 🙂
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Your comment makes me smile. I look forward to it whenever I publish. Thank you, Miriam.
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My absolute pleasure
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A smile is a personal gift for yourself and others that is filled with love. It is a blessing to vow to never lose it regardless the hardships because it truly is a support in hard moments.
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Yes…keep smiling. I need your smile and enthusiasm to rub over me. Bless you !
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Thank you! Have no worries, I already have the promise to never lose my smile.
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Brilliant !
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Just the action of smiling bring joy to your life! Well said Sudhir 🙂 🙂
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Yes…Keep smiling, Linda
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You remind me to smile more often. It’s free!!
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How about you making me smile ?
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nice pro-smiling post 🙂 my favourite was the ‘smile when someone criticises you’ – I will try this, as I’m sure it does send a positive message to my brain and a ‘I’m totally level’ message to the other person.
thanks!
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Great post..and what is the best part about this post, minus the obvious great article, is the picture! Hehe.. I am sure it will get anybody to smile! Cheers…
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Hey Komal…long time.. How have you been ?
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M good, thanks 🙂 How you been? I was just reading your blog post about needing motivation to reach your goals and was nodding in agreement all the time. As much I love to write and learn better ways of expressing myself, I am just not putting enough efforts. So Starting today.. I am going to do that. Thanks for that post.
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Hey…thanks…Glad that post helped. Lots coming up this month including a short story ‘Love is’ …keep in touch.
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Look forward to it.. Good luck with the story.
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You missed quite a few posts here. Have a nice day ! take care. 🙂
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